Friday, May 17, 2013

Happily Married to Money

 Shalom to y'all..Its another Friday..a very wet one in my part of the world.Irrespective of the rain, its a very beautiful day.. and i have a nice piece for you today. This story of interest to me because it reiterates what i have always believed in, that is...life deals with each one of us differently..We each have our races to run...not competing with the next person, but with ourselves to become a better person. 

Here is a story of a charming lady..by all means she seems the luckiest in the whole world...but read her story and see how life deals with her..

Don't forget to drop your comments down below..they're very welcome.

One Love  xxx

 

My Life is beautiful. I am blessed, rich and beautiful.... Oh i also drive the latest Range Rover Sport in color Red, and i have 2 beautiful kids. Did i mention that i travel on vacation to any country of the world every quarter of the year? If you ain't loving my life you better do!!.

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I am pretty, i wear only designers. From top to bottom. All my friends envy me, they flock around me every time. I throw lavish parties, my kids go to the best schools in the world. What is gold...it means nothing to me..i have a closet full of gold earrings and neck pieces... I am just living the life.. I walk on red carpet, my skin is flawless, am in great shape....BUT..... every night i soak my pillow in tears.

You see me outside and wish for my life, you see my pictures on Instagram, facebook, twitter and the likes, and envy me..If only you knew.

Why do i cry you may ask? i should be the happiest woman on planet earth..because i am lucky..Well, that's what most of my friends say...If only they knew.

I am married to the most loving man in the world, but its not me he loves.He loves his money. Yes..he lavishes me with money, but his presence is absent.

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We live in the same house, but i only see him once a month. He is too busy making money. Money that i joyfully spend. I can't remember the last time my husband and I had a meal together as a couple,maybe once within the last 2 years. The last time we made love..haaaaah..that's another story.

After the arrival of our twins about 3 years ago, my husband has not seen my nakedness.  As if that's not bad enough, he only talks to me when we go for the executive meeting with his business partners once a month. He presents me as a trophy.

So why am i still married too him you may ask.. Truth is i love him, i really do, and i love the money. I just cant imagine going back to poverty. I mean abject poverty.. that's where i came from.

I know what it means to live under the bridge, i know what it means to eat from the dustbin..i have been there, and done that.

My church members don't know what am going through.. They always tell me ' Oh sister, you look so great today'. How won't I? when my offering envelope is always the fattest.Lol

I pray to God everyday, and i make sure my kids attend church regularly. I pray for a change in my home. I pray for affection, but am not sure its ever going to come

Sometime ago, i tried getting a lover in Jamaica..it only lasted while i was in Jamaica...i couldn't keep up the communication.

I have tried to get another lover in Nigeria here, but the fear of my husband is the beginning of wisdom for me. I don't want to risk going back to poverty.

I don't save, because i don't control my bank account.. Its a joint account that was set up by my husband for me.The account is always credited with millions every month..much more than i can spend. If i decide to leave my husband? what will i fall back to... I have no skill, i do no business..am a full housewife..or you may call me, a full time society wife.

But am happily married..yes happily married to money.

That's my story

11 comments:

  1. Wow...I envy her being a "money goddes".
    For God sake, money isn't everything in life. Infact, our happiness n fulfilment shouldn't depend on it. So where's the place of God in our lives if we depend our lives on it?
    Didn't she date n court him before settling with him? Then she would have seen these things before now. Except if she's married to him for that same money, never minding or thinking things would change but rather probably worse now.
    I think this whole thing has to do with communication. She should try talk it over with him on how she feels, via mail, text message etc, since she sees him once a month only at the Excetive meeting.
    Mind you, its not just about her now, even the kids. She should make him know the implications of not parenting them together. Let him understand her emotional instability, her sexual needs as a result of his regular absence.
    Cheating isn't an option. Cheating on him won't solve anything 'cos it would worsen the situation if he ever gets to know. He'll never accept that he led u to doing that. Also, as a christian, its a sin to God...defiling your bed!
    Come on, get yourself a life by getting something to do pls! You don't depend on another persons sweat all your life. What if he dies today, does that mean its gonna be the end of her life?

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  2. How do u withdraw spending money from a joint account and be so silly not to open another and save??

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  3. SHE CAN STILL START SAVING NOW. ITS NOT TOO LATE INCASE SHE WANTS TO OPT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE.
    WELL, IM NOT MARRIED BUT MY FIANCEE HARDLY HAS TIME FOR ME. NOT THAT HE'S CHEATING OR ANYTHING. ITS ALL WORK WORK WORK. WE HARDLY TALK COS HE DOESN'T V THE TIME. WHEN I CALL, HE'S EITHER IN A MEETING OR ANOTHER. EVEN WHEN I TRAVELED TO SEE HIM, WE HAD EVERYTHING CALLED FUN PLANNED BUT AS WE WERE HAVING DINNER AT A CHOICE RESTAURANT, HIS OGA @ THE TOP CALL AND HE HAD TO TRAVEL THE NEXT DAY SO DID I TRAVEL BACK TOO.
    HIS BROTHER WHO HAPPENS TO BE MY FRIEND FROM UNIVERSITY DAYS ASKED ME FRANTICALLY IF I WOULD BE ABLE TO COPE WITH HIS SCHEDULES AND I SAID I WOULD TRY.
    TO HIS BROTHER, HE STILL SEES AND TALKS TO ME THAN ANY OTHER MEMBER OF THE FAMILY.
    I LOVE HIM BUT I THINK I WANNA BREAKUP COS I DON'T WANNA CHEAT ON HIM WHEN WE EVENTUALLY MARRY COS HE HAS A GOOD HEART BUT THAT WONT KEEP ME WARM ON COLD DARK NIGHTS.....

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  4. Hmmmmmm,so pathetic bt d truth is she should think of her future nd dt of her kidds.she should make up her mind either to leave or to live with him for d rest of her life bt in dat case she might end up being unhappy den also living in sin by committing adultery. If u ask me I will say she should leave with her kidds instead of cheating right in his house if he truly loves dem he will go searching nd who knows he might have a change of heart.

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  5. Hola Amigos!Interestingly few people believed that she should leave the husband with the kids! BAD ADV.
    Communication is the only glue that can fix marital problem.Except if there is 100% guarantee that the grass is always greener somewhere else.
    No doubt she would have noticed that he is always busy before getting married to him. At least all she worries about is his attention and affection which is not a problem as they already are blessed with kids.The woman owns the home and she will know exactly what to do. Money Money Money is the only reason that more that 50% of ladies will get married to a guy ( Sorry ladies no offence ). She should try and watch closely on when he is less busy and make use of that little time for a quality moment as a family. I wish her all the best.

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    1. I agree wv u, why should d advice 'quit' com frm anybody? Sh ll b mor miserably if sh dares quit dat marriage. So its really a bad advice 2 quit.

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  6. Hmmm. AM I agree with u.. Communication is key.as the grass is not greener on the other side. Surely the man will have a soft spot in his heart. She should go down on her knees in prayer. Nothing is impossible for God

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  7. Pls go down on ur kneels in prayer, many women somwhr has somthin 2 say abt her/their marriage. U hav it al, jst d attention is left which is dat u r adviced 2 pray abt. Also u jst said ur friends envy u, wc means so many of dem wnts 2 b like u. My prayer 2 God 4 u is dat may u hav ur marriage as u so desire it IJN Amen. I pray 4 evrythin abt u nd ur marriage but neva 2 b in ur shoes(sorry) goodluck sweet.

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  8. my friend you are not happy at all and you don't love the man so stop lying. what you love is his money and you are not telling us the whole truth. Did he not show traces of this behaviour of his when you first met him? or did you allow the stupendous wealth of his becloud your judgement? Anyway, you must have known that from the outset that girls will be frolicking around him but you still decided to hook him. it means you were ready to accept him like that or did you think you could change him? how I my sure you didn't snatch him from another babe of his. My dear you better go to God and pray seriously and then follow-up by talking to your husband. when next he comes home tell him you would like to take him out. There is something you are not doing in the house that he is getting outside. find out the thing that is tripping him outside. Did I hear you say you had a Jamaican guy? are you serious? of all the men in this world nah Jamaican you go catch!. you see your life?I just tire for you sef. So your eye no see footballers or movie stars nah Jamaican rastafara? you just confirmed that you are also part of the problem. you are not serious at all. I'm sure you have a boyfriend currently that is giving you TLC but remember, you cant eat your cake and have it. if you want to marry money please go all out and marry the money very well because it does appear you are in bondage but you can redeem your marriage as I said earlier by praying to God and then taking concrete steps to bring your husband back but know for sure that he will always spend a lot of time outside if he is very wealthy. Goodluck

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  9. Hmm...na wa oo..this life. He who has head has no cap..he who has cap has no head. My dear.. live with what you have and pray for what you dont have.

    Mary

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  10. There is no happiness to this and I believe she can withdraw from the joint acct to open a savings account...instead of spending all that money on flashy things why not save some of it.

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