Myths and Tips about Sex..You ought to know.

Do you know that you think about Sex both consciously and unconscioulsy everyday?

Research has shown that a man's sexual drive is a natural force that propels him. But, if you think women dont think about sex, or dont like sex..you are super wrong.

Truth be told, a whole lot of us are misinformed about sex. We've grown up with ideas about what sex is, what to expect from sex, and how to relate to sex. This misinformation has prompted this piece on Sex Myths.

While researching on them, i found it interesting that these information are actually just myths. There's no scientific claim to back up their truth, at least that's what i think, and that's what i gathered from my sources.

So lets have a look at these Myths. If you agree with them, let me know. If you dont agree, also let me know.

Myth #1: Great Sex comes naturally.

Have you ever thought that great sex with your spouse is natural? Do you think the chemistry you feel for your spouse will lead to an interesting sexual life? Or do you assume that a great sex life is as magical as it appears on your favorite reality show?

A very big NO. There is no manual on instant intimacy and sexual gratification in marriage. Sexual relationships can be as complex and tedious as rocket science. The “tricks of the trade” that pleased your partner yesterday may not please him or her today. Why? because of psychological, emotional and physical  factors such as stress, mood etc

The only way to maintain a great sex life is  good and continuous communication.As well as willingness to be open to trying new techniques and positions to find out what your spouse partner finds pleasurable at each moment. Great sex is hard work..real hard work

Tip #1: Always create time to talk about sex, and review what your partner wants right at every time.

Myth #2:  Size matters....Oops

You definitely should not come to you as a surprise that size is being discussed here. Penis Size has always been a major source of concern for men. Just the same way a lot of women are not satisfied with the size of their breast. It should be noted that the size of a penis does not determine manhood.

There is no scientific proof that the size of a penis guarantees great sex. Size does not have anything to do with sexual gratification. A woman with a small breast is equally as attractive as a woman with big breasts,and their organs would perform the same function. Same applies to the penis.

Do not let the size of your husband or wives sexual organ create an illusion of what should be expected or what can be achieved in your matrimonial bedroom.

 

Tip #2: If your penis size is of concern to you, try shaving the pubic hair around it. This makes the penis appear or look bigger. For women, exercises can be done to firm up the breast and the vagina.

Myth #3: Men have more sexual urges than women 

Luke is 32 years old and his wife Sara, is 29. Luke is worried because Sara has more sexual energy and drive than him. Sara wants to have sex every day and doesn't get tired even after sex. At first, Luke thought it was because they just got married, but after 3 years of marriage and 1 kid, Sara's urge has not diminished. If anything, her desires have increased, and Luke is finding it hard to keep up.

 Luke is afraid that Sara may cheat on him because of his inability to meet up. 

Does this story sound familiar or strange? A lot of you would agree that it sounds strange. You might even conclude that Luke is a brute or that Sara as a deep psycho-sexual problem.

We have been bombarded into thinking that only men want sex, only men like sex, and only men should initiate sex. But thats just wrong information. Sexual desire and need was created by God. He says in the bible, that the Husband's body is the Wife's, and the Wife's body is the Husband's. Why did He say so?

Women have as much sexual need as men, and it is totally healthy. So many factors affect our sexual makeup, such as environment, culture, religion and society.

More women are discovering themselves and accepting their sexual needs as normal. With the support of a loving and caring husband, a wife need not be ashamed- a man need not feel intimidated. Again, i say communication is key.

NB: Luke and Sara should have an open discussion about their sexual needs.  Luke need not be afraid.

Tip #3: As a woman and a wife, your husband will respect and love you if can communicate clearly to him what your needs. All things should be done in moderation and in a manner such as is respectful.